Jesus said we should not build our house on a foundation made from sand because when the wind blows and the storm comes that house will collapse. Instead be like the wise man who built their house on the solid rock. I think the two people in the relationship need to have strong foundations of love. Love remedies all things. God is love.I think just as God showed his love for us by the amount of things he forgave us for, we should be forgiving also. Loving is forgiving! If you don't think you can forgive a person for the wrong they might do, then forget it sweet heart.Every human being makes mistakes. I think prospective partners need to take time to know each other. It's easy to want to impress your partner. But I think you need to be able to be yourself around each other. I think it's no good falling in love with someone you can not be yourself around. God bless you if you have found that person. If the Lord takes us for who we are then the other person should reflect the love of God in our lives.
It helps to point out each others dreams and ambitions. How can two walk togther unless they agree. One person may have to sacrifice their dream to let the other persons dream happen. God bless you if you have found someone who believes in your dreams and is willing to work with you for the greater good. I think if you buy into each others destiny there is nothing that can separate you. For the two shall become one. Glory!!!!!!!In that regard I think marriage is a miracle. You can not be one if you can not unify in mind, body, spirit and soul. It's true everyone is special and unique but when two unique, whole and special people unite in marriage it produces lasting results. A business woman can marry a plumber. All she has to do is buy houses and he can do all the plumbing for those houses and that way they both become involved in the business, therefore unifying in purpose. A teacher can marry a doctor all the doctor has to do is make the teacher feel better after a hard day at work and even deliver all their eight or ten babies.God is good. A dustbin man can marry a beautiful queen all the dustbin man has to do is make sure her majesty's life is kept clean and orderly. Cleaniness is next to godliness. All I'm trying to say is no matter who you are or where you are coming from once you agree in purpose and destiny, nothing can destroy a marriage.It's more like no matter what you do your sister is your sister and your brother is your brother. Ladies and Gentlemen your husband is your husband and your wife is your wif you can not leave them. Even when you are divorced your wife is still your wife she is just your ex-wife and likewise your husband. Although there are certain biblical functions of a man and woman in a marriage, ultimately strong foundations of unity will preserve a marriage. And if the man or woman in your life is not what they ought to be, just be a good man or woman and help them to be what they ought to be. I think you need to be a true worshipper to achieve this. When you worship you see things differently. God bless you all!! True love conquers all and the power of love breaks all curses.
Here's my say. I may not know it all but it's my say. Have your say too. God bless you

God richly bless you Blue Crystal.I pray that people will get to know about this truth especially the christian community.

Thank you Joseph.
I would like to expand more on what I have written. I'm quite a reflective thinker. So sometimes after sleeping over something I get more ideas. I remember a while ago Bishop TD Jakes and Eddie long said some interesting things. Not simultaneously though but their messages tallied up. In a nut shell dating is not a biblical concept. Biblically there is no such thing as dating trial and errors.It is a creation of our modern world. We as christians should not date unless we have the intention to marry.Its this dating business that has caused our men and women to have all this excess baggage which causes so much pain. We need to think seriously before we even start dating. Knowing that when we walk on the dating path all roads lead to a healthy marriage.

It is important that we are satisfied in ourselves that we have got rid of all baggage from our lives sorted out and repented of any bad habits that are bound to have a negative effect on a marriage.Eg gambling, porno, serial womanising, drug addictions etc. Please do not take things of the past into your marriage. For those of us who have been caught up in multiple dating, please do not expect the person you are intending to marry to be like your first girlfriend or boyfriend or someone you have seen on tv. Eg Halle Berry or Will Smith. It is very important to put all of the past behind and treat the new person in your life as the new person. Any given perosn can only be the worst of who they are or the best of who they are. They are what God has made them to be. You can only be an instrument in the potters hand to bring out the best in the other person. So enjoy the best that person has to offer you. Marriage needs to be a haven, a place we find rest in each other. Please do not get marriage and then expect the other person to fix things. Fix them before you go in.

Remember also the quality needs to go into something before the Lord can put his name on it. Invest time in yourself and your cordship, making sure you have worked with God in making yourself whole. That way the Lord will surely bless your holy union.
My men and my women this is why we should also think twice before attempting to sleep with someone. You may not know what kind of generational curse they have in their family, you do not know if their mother is the one eyed witch of Antartica, you do not know if they are into the occult or any other kind of practice that does not favour the God you and I serve:assuming we are all christians. The moment you sleep with someone you take a part if not the hole of them. It is important that we consider things prayerfully. We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony. If you are facing a problem where you have committed to someone you do not really know, I suggest you pray and pray really hard for God to step into your situation and trun every curse into a blessing. God is more than willing to bless your life. Just reach out to him. Run after God like you would the love of your life.
On that note ladies and gentlemen always take your time let some quality go into every decision you make.

God bless all you wonderful people out there!
Peace

Completely I share your opinion. It seems to me it is excellent idea. I agree with you.